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This from [profile] karentraviss: The more creative a person is, the more sexual partners they are likely to have, UK investigators have found. Artists and poets had an average of four to 10 sexual partners, compared to three for non-creative types, Newcastle and Open University teams discovered.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/4479628.stm

One has to ask oneself: is this because artistic types are inherently more attractive, or just more badly behaved? It's an issue which has been annoying me somewhat over the weekend in the wake of George Best's demise - a lot of the coverage has been along the lines of 'yes, he was a drunk and a wife beater. But what a character, eh? And a genius footballer!' Tyson gets the same kind of coverage. Since when was athleticism an excuse?

If you're single, or in an agreed polyamorous relationship, then fair enough: it's no one's business but your own. But I'm sure we have all run into a few folk who think that writing second-rate novels or painting indifferent oils somehow gives them a free access-all-areas pass into other people's relationships, or allows them to run around behind their partners' backs ('And that's okay because we're so WONDERFULLY CREATIVE and free in our expression!'). I blame Augustus John, Eric Gill and all those late 19th century artistes who thought that their genius entitled them to shag anything that moved: other people's maids, their own kids...And carries right through to the Bloomsbury Group, a bunch of mediocre poseurs if ever there was one (with the exception of V Woolf), the Factory, and pretty much any rock star you care to mention. It probably reaches its culmination with Anais Nin, who really wasn't all that good at anything except having lots of sexual partners.

I don't think genius entitles you to anything except acknowledgment that you're good at something. I don't really care all that much about other people's lives - but I'd like it if, just to keep a balance, some creative person with a long, dull, everyday marriage was celebrated, precisely for that.

Date: 2005-11-30 03:44 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] caskared.livejournal.com
I agree, I know too many people who do the free expression sleep around thing because they see that as being part of creative. When they're single it's fine, but some have relationships and it just ends horribly...somehow the word 'expression' covers up the words 'cheating' and 'lying'...and thus conculdes my sanctimonious comment for today.

I think the article may just have been an excuse to show a picture of David Tennent as Casanova!

Date: 2005-11-30 03:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mevennen.livejournal.com
>I think the article may just have been an excuse to show a picture of David Tennent as Casanova!

Fair enough in that case! ;-)

Yeah, I worry sometimes about being sanctimonious but then I think: sod it. I'm as entitled to disapprove as other people are to approve, especially when the damage done gets close to home.

Date: 2005-11-30 04:39 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fjm.livejournal.com
No offence. But lots of monogamous relationships end pretty horribly as well.

Date: 2005-11-30 11:50 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mevennen.livejournal.com
Yes, they do. But in a number of (one or two sided) creative partnerships I've witnessed that have messily bitten the dust, the reason given has been that 'he/she didn't UNDERSTAND my creativity.' And I'm afraid that in a lot of those cases, one can't help thinking: yeah, but actually, your creativity isn't really up to much....

And sometimes, you come across truly unsympathetic partners who resent the time the wife (usually) spends writing/painting/drawing etc.

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